Thursday, January 31, 2013
Human nature
2:09 PM
What's up with my added kaartehan owww well i graduated from neutrogena sesame body oil. Reasons? Not only its kinda pricy for my budget :) well im just too dry that this oil cant give me the enough moisture that im wanting to have. But I have nothing bad to say to this product. It smells good and feels so light as body oil. Its feel mayaman wearing this oil on the skin :) ok enough with nuetrogena. And hello sunflower HHN body oil... Well this is my new favorite specialy on this cold weather the dries my skin so fast this oil give me wonder. one of the best reasons why my skin is too dry is I don't drink water too much. And blame my so very maarte slef who's been so frustrated to get silky fair skin i powder bleach myself and went over do it :( yes! I over do it. And the result dry skin saddness yes!
Well thanks to this sunflower oil who not just gave a smooth feeling on my skin it also give me radiant young skin and take note the dark stretch marks from giving birth to my precious daughter this oil lighten my dark marks on my tummy and make it looks acceptable and presentable wearing bikinis :) I also discovered that my dark elbows starting to get even and my drry feets feels moisture the whole night. And another discovery is the tinted moisturizer that my officemate sugested me to try cause she saw my lips chaping due to cold weather. I love wearing pink mac lippies that my everyday office glam :) my pink lippies :) and dry lips wont give it a full glam because of it! So this new discovery is defenitly added to my box of kakikayan.
Another new buys that I have is the rejuvinating massage
oil not in citrus scent. I forgot the scent but deffinetly not citrus. :) haven't tried it yet. My hubby requested this oil so... Still ploting out sched for our next massage sessions. :)
Lastly the feminine wash :) which I find it ok to use not over scented like lactacid that alittle bit strong that scares me to use directly over there! Heheheh
Owww welll thats it guys :)
Human nature! All natural and no harmfull chemicals that will damage my skin and to risky for my health :)
Go all naturals to stop aging :)
Simply soleil
Well thanks to this sunflower oil who not just gave a smooth feeling on my skin it also give me radiant young skin and take note the dark stretch marks from giving birth to my precious daughter this oil lighten my dark marks on my tummy and make it looks acceptable and presentable wearing bikinis :) I also discovered that my dark elbows starting to get even and my drry feets feels moisture the whole night. And another discovery is the tinted moisturizer that my officemate sugested me to try cause she saw my lips chaping due to cold weather. I love wearing pink mac lippies that my everyday office glam :) my pink lippies :) and dry lips wont give it a full glam because of it! So this new discovery is defenitly added to my box of kakikayan.
Another new buys that I have is the rejuvinating massage
oil not in citrus scent. I forgot the scent but deffinetly not citrus. :) haven't tried it yet. My hubby requested this oil so... Still ploting out sched for our next massage sessions. :)
Lastly the feminine wash :) which I find it ok to use not over scented like lactacid that alittle bit strong that scares me to use directly over there! Heheheh
Owww welll thats it guys :)
Human nature! All natural and no harmfull chemicals that will damage my skin and to risky for my health :)
Go all naturals to stop aging :)
Simply soleil
Saturday, September 29, 2012
Sick day...
12:36 PM
today... I was helpless and cant do nothing but to cough and sneeze I hate it... It should be a fun day for me because its weekend and its Chloe day bonding moment but it didn't happen... Though the high of my day is seeing my chloe's report card and knowing that she's been doing reel good in her school...
but knowing she's not getting friends at school bothers me.???
I ask her if she's being bullied in school. she told me the she's not naman daw. Pinapaiyak lang daw sya. which bothers me. alot... I'm still weighing thing maybe she's a starter or she's not aware as well. Im still praying and hope things will be ok soon...
but knowing she's not getting friends at school bothers me.???
I ask her if she's being bullied in school. she told me the she's not naman daw. Pinapaiyak lang daw sya. which bothers me. alot... I'm still weighing thing maybe she's a starter or she's not aware as well. Im still praying and hope things will be ok soon...
Labels: My Chloe, my today's journey
Thursday, September 20, 2012
Power of make up!
1:58 AM
The power of make up! :)
how to be an ulzzang =)
Just browsing you tube for another make up tutorial. at nakita ko tong Video nato. It's really amaze me and inspired me to keep on improving my make up knowledge :) not for my boyfriend but also to get my confidence back :)
simply soleil....
Labels: Girl thing
Saturday, September 8, 2012
why do people need to be inlove.
8:27 PM
Simply said...
People need to be in love because it’s a good thing. But not everyone will be in love. Different commitments and phobias have hindered some people of the wonderful gift of being in love. But still other people are in love but not to their partners but to their work, car, boat, dog, self etc.
Being in love with someone gives you internal happiness. You know you are not alone. There’s someone out there who wants the same things as you and who enjoys the same things as you and who supports you and takes care of you and loves you and sleeps with you.
When people are in love, they are more organized and focused. A lot of energy and time is wasted thinking about sex and looking for a partner. But when you in love, you don’t have to look for a partner, you don’t have to look for love, you don’t have to spend a lot of time looking for sex and thinking about sex. Your partner provides you these things, thus you have more time to do other things. It’s like a heavy burden has been lifted off your shoulder. You can then spend that time doing good for mankind. ‘A happy man has happy thoughts’. Being in love is a wonderful thing and most people should fall in love. But the desire to be in love should not outweigh the readiness to be in love.
If being in love is rushed, it crushes. You need to really know the person before you commit to them and totally open up to them. Unfortunately we live in a cruel world where some people don’t have honest intentions. Something like being in love can be manipulated for their own benefit, which would not benefit you but bring you misery. If someone loves you that means they are saying that they are not going anywhere. Thus there is no need to rush for anything.
Being in love should not be used as means to take advantage of someone neither should it be used to ruin someone’s life.
Being in love should be enjoyed, appreciated and looked forward to.
Simply soleil.
Labels: My why's
Thursday, September 6, 2012
days to aniv.
7:52 PM
10 days to go!
I'm counting days to our 5th anniversary no fancy plans on our 5th aniv. but I really don't mind. at first medyo na teary ako knowing that it will be just an ordinary day for us on our aniv. but then I realize ano bang importante? pano ko kkwento sa mga friends ko how we celebrate our 5th yr? or how are we going on our 5th year. thing came flashing in my head and things really made me sad. how thing happen and how things went real rough para maka abot kami ng 5yrs. we're not just an ordinary Boy and girlfriends. we're partners. in pain, in happiness, in crimes in many things... we're more like best friends for me. and mortal like enemies in times of misunderstandings. we are two heads in one heart.
soo chessy.. but all I know I love him and I will love him until my heart said I love him...
looking forward on our 5th anniversary.
simply soleil..
Labels: Inlove days....
why do we fall out of love?
7:35 PM
Simply said...
I question myself for a moment this morning. asking why do people Fall out of love? I don't know why suddenly I ask this question? maybe I have this feeling inside me wanting to know and still denying that this could really happen not to me. but to someone I love honestly.
I browse the net and find myself reading this article and I little hope this could answer my wanderings.
When people fall in love, they do so for a number of reasons. For some people it is because they are lonely, and they have been longing to meet someone that they can talk to and spend time with at an intimate level. Though they might have friends, they feel their life is incomplete until they meet that someone. And once they meet that someone, they discover that they really didn’t need that person. They realize that they can stand up on their own. What they were looking for, they already had. They just never realized that. Thus they fell in love for the wrong reason and once that reason is fulfilled, they fall out of love.
It’s very easy nowadays to fall in lust and mistake that for being in love. And once that lusting desire is over, you fall out of love.
Most people, who fall in love due to chemistry and not commitment, are the ones that end up being in love with so many different people time after time. As soon as the chemistry goes, they fallout of love and move on to the next person they have chemistry with.
Chemistry is just the anticipation of sex. It won’t last forever. When you meet someone new, there is always the adrenaline rush, especially if you have things in common. Your body identifies with that person and once you are relaxed and comfortable with the person. Your desire to have sex with that person arises and that would end up to be a one night stand or several nights stands depending on how satisfied you are.
Making out with someone without having sex leads to a stronger relationship because it retains the emotions. The body is always pumped up and not fully satisfied thus the desire for more and more. The anticipation for sex is even much greater thus you have stronger chemistry. But once you finally have sex you release your emotions during orgasm. Each time you have an orgasm, your emotions are released and the desire for sex becomes less and less.
It always starts off as more and more once you start having sex with someone because your anticipation is higher, thereafter it becomes less and less because orgasms take up a lot of your energy. Relationships that are sex based have a shorter life span than relationships that are not sex based.
The other reason why people fall out of love is due to their expectations not having been met. When they fell in love, they had high expectations depending on what they wanted. But after some time in the relationship they discover that their expectations are not being met. Maybe they wanted someone who would compliment them and appreciate them, but this is not the case. Instead they have someone calling them names and disrespecting them. After they have had enough, they fall out of love with that person and move on to a different relationship with someone that meets their needs.
A lot of people are rushed into falling in love by their families. You find they are always being asked by their friends: ‘so when you going to get married?’ Have you got a boyfriend/girlfriend?’ Or: ‘look at that cute guy’, ‘oh, isn’t that couple lovely’. Or by stirring up jealousy: ‘John is so romantic, he sent me flowers to work’. Or by reminding you of a day of the calendar: ‘February 14th, Valentines Day’. Or by mentioning romantic movies ‘How sally met Harry’. Or by narrating fairytales, ‘Cinderella, sleeping beauty, snow white’. These are all stories of girls wanting to be rescued by a prince and fall deeply in love with him.
So there is pressure for both men and women to fall in love.
The other reason why people fall out of love is mistreatment by their partner. When they first meet someone he/she is so good, so sweet and kind. But after some time they change and become abusive. They either hit them or swear at them. The person then can’t take this anymore and falls out of love and moves on with their life and find someone who treats them better. Nobody wants to be mistreated though some people will tolerate it for a while. But just because they tolerate it, doesn’t mean they enjoy it.
Guys especially, tend to be sweet at first and later change into mean ones. These guys that do, that are already mean but pretend to be sweet when they meet a girl and once the girl is attached to them, their true self is revealed, since they can’t pretend forever.
But not all guys are like that. In fact the majority of guys are nice throughout. Yet mean people make themselves more easily noticed and appealing than nice people do. Thus if you know the person’s ex-partner, you will have a better understanding of the person. But also no matter how nice a mean person pretends to be, there will always be a few elements that will give away their true nature but most people ignore this. They ignore it until it fully reveals itself. Then they wonder what happened. What happened is that you ignored the bad and accepted the good. And that made the bad grow and grow until you couldn’t handle it anymore then you got heartbroken or fell out of love and cried that the world isn’t fair. ‘The world is fair to those who play fair’. You can’t just ignore the bad and accept the good.
And last but not least the reason why people fall out of love is because they weren’t in love in the first place. There was no commitment; there was just the idea. The idea of being in love seems awesome but it takes work to stay in love. You have to keep doing good. You have to keep appreciating your partner. You have to keep supporting your partner even when the times are tough you have to hang in there and stick together and solve problems together and enjoy victories together.
Being in love is so much publicized that a lot of people go into it without fully realizing what they are doing. They don’t really know the true meaning of being in love. They think of it as a candy shop, where you walk in when there’s candy and don’t go there when there’s no candy. With being in love, you walk in when there’s candy (chemistry) and even when there’s no candy (chemistry) you still stay until the candy (chemistry) is back.
Chemistry doesn’t last forever but being in love does. Chemistry contributes to the relationship being exciting, but love sustains the relationship and keeps it going.
A loss of chemistry is normally due to other commitments that take away the time for sex or a change in appearance of your partner. All these can be worked out by spending more romantic time together. The thing you liked about your partner at the beginning of the relationship should continue throughout the relationship. Relationships are about spending time together. Most relationships end because of lack of this.
If people fall in love for the right reasons and commit to it and build their relationship and keep on spending time together and supporting each other, then they will stay in love much longer.
People have different upbringings and thus different goals and expectations. This is why when they first meet someone new, they want to get to know them and see if they are on the same wavelength. The more things in common you have with someone the better the relationship. Communication is the key to any relationship. Couples that talk stay in love and couples who don’t talk stay out of love’. Thus when you meet someone new you have to know them first. Before there is contact of the genitals, there should be contact of the minds.
Successful relationships are based on trust, honesty, love, tolerance, sharing and forgiveness.
Most relationship breakdown is normally due to lack of one or more of these things.
honest sad but true...
Simply soleil...
Labels: My why's
Spanish peeling
2:42 AM
Simply said....
I just had my another session of spanish peeling at Holyking medical clinic. near our area. months ago, I had this very bad breakout that I never had before. I don't know what causes my Break out its so irritating to see and it gives me very low self confident. so one day I decided to treat my pimples. Bough medicated solution online and didn't give me the result I wanted. I never listen to people who tell me seek professional help for my pimples. I was scared because it might cause me thousand for my shouting problem. alam mo namn dito sa pilipinas TAKE advantage. but then it's really eating my self steam and even y boy friend ask me to go DERMA for treatment. that's the time I decided to go and make an appointment I choose derma near our place para ndi ako tamarin to go for follow up sessions. I know myself so well... Laging sa start lang and then... I have plenty of reason for my katamaran not to go for my check up. But dahil nga near our place lang ung derma I have no reason to absent. and becuse it gave my face a reason to live again.. I was motivated to go every week for Spanish peel.. I was desperate that time though I hate peeling because of the strong stings it gives every hilamos. I really dont mind I just want to get it done and cure my breakouts. and lucky that it did not cost me much for this treatment. I love the result and I received lots of compliments how it went well because its really a drastic change. for Ugly duckling to beautiful swan... ahahahahah... I have pictures below on my Spanish peeling 1st treatment session. and again I had 6 session to get good result. but after my first session It already dries up my pimples already and really working real well...
Spanish peel day 1.
left side
right side
day 3
day 4
day 5
and after 6 continues session of my Spanish peel treatment.. guys it really takes lots of dedication on getting what you really wanted.. I did ever week session ever weekend I did facial and peeling to really get clear face. and I'm so happy on this picture. I got my confidence back and back from me being kikay...
Guys if you can compare... maliwanag po ang lighting ko on this shot because open po ang door dito sa shot ko dito... sempre confident na ko to take pictures kahit my ibang tao makakita. on my Before pics... as you can see isang spot lang po ako lagi sa likod ng door which give me dark lighting kasi florescent light lang po ang ilaw ko don. for you to compare lang po. baka po kasi isipin nyo Photoshop ung after picture ko :) which is not :) :) :)
I have dolly contact lens in this picture. this picture was taken after I got home from work.. really haggard but I still look fresh and no signs of bad breakout. take note this was not Photoshop. It only cost me 750 php per session. plus 100php for soap as maintenance.
what I love about this Derma, they don't sell to many products... Though at some forums I said they used to sell I think 4 different product to me. but I realized, maybe they noticed that I need maintenance because after my 3 sessions there are pimples that are still actively popping on my chicks. I have no hesitations on buying those medicated product. I trust them but I really hate hold up style. pero hindi namn sila ganon... I had bad experiences lang tlga sa ibang derma specially derma sa mga MALLS... I know you know what I mean. :) hehehhehe....
to some this all up....
I really love my face now I thank god for healing my face and that god for this derma who gave me peaceful face :) and im back being KIKAY again....
Simply soleil....
Labels: Girl thing
Sunday, September 2, 2012
Peony pink... Maybeline
7:30 PM
got this new lipies gift from my BF, coz im having this crave in pink lipstick for some time now. and I'm loving it. Its maybeline's pink lippies ordered from our team mates catalog. Its a pink peony, which gives my lips more sophisticated look. I have I think more than 5 pink lipstick on my pouch but this one is now my favorite. not only gives me moisturized lips but also confident feeling on my haggard night shift work in the office. I love love love this pink lips stick...
simply soleil...
Labels: Girl thing
Dunkin Dooooonuts...
5:30 PM
Hi guys... just got back from my weekend outing with my office mates at Laguna pansol. it was a whole lot of fun and over flowing drining beer tequila and a lot more. but today.... I stared my day after resting my whole night trying to recover from my weekend travel. I wake up hungry. and thank god before going home. I told Ferdz, that I'm hungry and I want to buy Ice cream so we stop by at ministop but before that I bought Donuts just beside mini stop. there's a Dunking Donuts store. so I bought 25pcs munchkins.
remembering kids days my papa used to bring this home as pasalubong for me and my sister. I remember him also buying this KAZAM pencil case its free when you buy dozen of O donuts. heheh....
DUNKIN DONUTS pasalubong ng bayan... hahahha....
I never stop liking the taste of this donuts. even crispy cream can't beat my dunkin. the tast of this donuts is not too sweet and not to messy to eat. I just love this donuts :) and its a really good breakfast food pair with real good coffee or hot choco. or you can eat it alone with while watching your fave morning show. :)
good way to start my morning....
oh by the way just ignore the wacko my dog beside the box of muchkins. he just cant get away with it. he keep on smelling the box. I even told hin to go away but he wont listen so I took a picture even he's there. hehehehe :)
Simply soleil....
Labels: my today's journey
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Teary..
6:33 PM
Teary eyed, I was watching Kris TV. I'm not really a Fan of Melason. Melai and Jason I don't know their last names. all I know is they are past PINOY BIGBROTHER housemates. I know they became friends inside bigbrother's house. got fall inlove and became real life couple. I don't admire them before but upon watching them almost every week in Kris TV. I started to admire their personalities and unique truthfulness on cam. I dont know if its because their on TV. But all I want to believe is I can feel na nag papakatotoo lang sila. things changed sinasabi nila kasi hindi na sila tulad ng dati na walang pina ngangalagaan na image. which is normal kahit office workers nga meron ding image na pinangangalagaan what more sila.
months past they broke up. I don't know the details and number of months na nag break sila. but now, I can say... they both still love each other and both know how to respect what they had in the past. before the end of the show. they talked about the star circle ball. nag ka tanongan kung sino ang date ng bawat isa sakanila.
Melai said I'm going with my Banana split family. and Jason was asked? ikaw sino ka date mo. he looked at melai and said? may ka date kna? biglang nag iba ung mood actually ako? parang nakikiramdam ako kung totoo ung ginagawa ni jayson or he's just tasting the water if its hot pa? or pede na. and suddenly I also felt the awkward feeling for melai. to be put on spot like that. but she stayed cool and keep it as joke and she teased jason as if wala lang skanya. until... Kris commented naawa ako skanya. she's pertaining to jason. then napansin ko. parang teary eyes na si jason. Kris told jason to as melai formaly. and melai still answer jason and keep her word that im going with banana split family. then Kris said ndi ba pede na isama mo sya in your table and join your group. melai said. cge tara sama ka samin. and said ndi kita ieentertain don ha. madami ako ieentertain ndi kita papansinin. and the pain was felt. jason was being serious na. and Kris keep on making it comfy as possible for the audience and ended the show like a normal morning show. but then....
but for me.. I thing the show did not end their. Mahal pa ni jason si malai. and naiintindihan ko ang pinag dadaanan nila. at si melai ang sample ng isang babae na pilit na nag papaka tatag sa pain na pinag daanan nya at ayaw na mabalikan. and si jason ang sample ng isang lalake na. Binigyan lang ng leksyon si melai sa pagiging selosa at freak.
that really reminds me of past....
I really feel sad for both of the. I just hope them happiness and may god shower them wisdom to know what is right and courage to do it.
simply soleil....
Labels: Inlove days....
